We often ask children what they want to be when they grow up. But somewhere along the way, we stop asking ourselves that same question. Not because we’ve arrived—but because we’ve settled. Life gets busy, roles get defined, and the deeper question of becoming gets buried beneath the noise.

But here’s the truth: You’re still becoming. Every choice, every conversation, every quiet moment of surrender or resistance is shaping you. The question isn’t if you’re becoming someone—it’s who.

Becoming Is Not Just About Achievement

We live in a culture obsessed with outcomes. Titles, trophies, and timelines. But becoming is more about alignment than arrival. It’s about who you are when no one’s watching. It’s about the character you cultivate in the valleys, not just the victories.

Ask yourself:

• Am I becoming more patient or more reactive?
• Am I more generous or more guarded?
• Am I more anchored in truth or swayed by trends?

These aren’t just personality traits—they’re spiritual indicators. They reveal whether your becoming is rooted in purpose or drifting in performance.

You don’t drift into integrity. You don’t stumble into peace. Becoming requires intention. It’s the daily decision to align your actions with your values, your faith, and your future self.

Scripture reminds us in Romans 12:2 to “be transformed by the renewing of your mind.” That’s not passive language. That’s active, ongoing, soul-deep work.

So what’s shaping you right now? Is it fear or faith? Comparison or calling? The voices around you or the voice within you?

You’re not a product to be marketed—you’re a soul to be nurtured. The world may applaud your hustle, but heaven honors your healing. Don’t confuse visibility with value. Becoming isn’t about being seen—it’s about being known, by God and by yourself.

So pause today. Not to hustle harder, but to listen deeper. Who are you becoming? And is that person someone you’d be proud to meet five years from now?

Thanks for stopping by the fire,
Coach Dennis

Ready to Become with Intention?

If you’re tired of drifting and ready to design a life that reflects your calling, Storyboard Coaching is here to walk with you. We don’t just talk about transformation—we map it out, one story, one strategy, one soul-deep shift at a time.

Whether you’re leading a ministry, rebuilding after burnout, or simply longing for clarity, Storyboard Coaching offers personalized tools, faith-driven insight, and a safe space to become who God designed you to be.

Let’s build your next chapter—on purpose, with purpose. Learn more or schedule your first session today.