Tools, truths, and tough love for leaders navigating temptation, authority, and the sacred responsibility of influence.
There’s a kind of pain that doesn’t show up in the pulpit. It’s not in the sermon notes, not in the budget meetings, not in the prayer circles. It’s the quiet hemorrhage behind the collar — the slow bleed of a shepherd who’s been tending to everyone else’s healing while silently losing his own. "The …
Continue reading When the Shepherd Is Wounded: Leading While Bleeding
Let’s name the tension: in some Christian circles, therapy still carries a whisper of shame. As if needing help means your faith isn’t strong enough. I’ve heard it. I’ve felt it. And I want to challenge it. Therapy isn’t a detour from faith—it’s often the vehicle God uses to bring healing. Scripture is full of …
In today’s world, it’s easy to spot the blame game. Politicians point fingers across the aisle. Athletes blame coaches, referees, or even fans. Social media influencers deflect criticism with curated narratives. And in everyday life, we often hear, “It wasn’t my fault.” But when everyone’s looking for someone else to blame, who’s left to take …
Who we share our most honest thoughts with shapes our lives more than we often realize. Our closest companions—those gathered around our table—can encourage us to grow or keep us stuck in the same frustrations. Evaluating who sits beside us is not about casting judgment, but about choosing relationships that uplift and empower. By reflecting …
This is the first installment in a series of posts about inspirational books. In this part, I’ll explore seven titles, with more to. come in future posts. Before diving into the list, I wanted to reflect on my love for reading and the memories that shaped it—because books, after all, are transformative companions. Since I …
Embracing Accountability In a world where distractions abound and moral compasses can waver, the concept of accountability stands as a steadfast guidepost for Christians. As a life coach rooted in Christian faith, I believe that true accountability is more than just a personal responsibility—it is a spiritual discipline that fosters growth, integrity, and community. Understanding …
We are just 35 days away from electing a new president, vice president, and many other local and federal officials. The past eight years have been turbulent across the country in terms of politics and opinions. It’s disheartening to see adults behaving as if they are playing “king of the hill,” believing they alone have …
I have had the privilege of serving on the board of our denomination for the past 13 years. One of the aspects I deeply appreciate about this board is its diverse composition. It includes lead and executive pastors, the President, CFO, and Executive Assistant, each bringing unique gifts and talents to the table. We unite …
Decisions, trust, and authority; what do you think of when you hear these words? Have you ever made a poor decision that led to an issue of trust in someone or something, which then effected the “authority” in some way or form? I am pretty sure many of us have made good and poor decisions. …
Leading can certainly have its ups and downs in any role and organization. Something to remember as a leader is to believe in yourself and trust that you have been chosen to lead. Not always an easy thing to do, but I came across the following 8 points in a devotional reading recently and I …
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