What it Really Means to be Married

Marriage shows up in Scripture as a beautiful, messy, holy partnership. It isn’t a romanticized fairytale or a project you finish and shelve; it’s a covenantal way of life—ordinary grace that asks two people to show up for one another with patience, courage, and a readiness to be sharpened. As a pastor and coach, I’ve …

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Your Calling Didn’t Change—You Just Stopped Listening

Why: Friend, somewhere between that first holy "yes" and this morning's third cup of coffee, the noise won. Not dramatically—callings rarely die in explosions. They fade in the thousand small compromises we call "wisdom." Success became your silencer. Those beautiful gifts that once drew you close to the Spirit now run on autopilot, producing fruit …

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Look Around and Be Accountable

In today’s world, it’s easy to spot the blame game. Politicians point fingers across the aisle. Athletes blame coaches, referees, or even fans. Social media influencers deflect criticism with curated narratives. And in everyday life, we often hear, “It wasn’t my fault.” But when everyone’s looking for someone else to blame, who’s left to take …

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